To Have or Not to Have?
So, T and I spent the better half of three hours last night talking about babies – to have or not to have… that is the question.
And you’re probably sitting on the edge of your seat wondering what the answer is, huh? Only if your name is Grace:)
Well, I think my answer is ‘yes’. Yes, I eventually want to have kids. I want the experience of having a family and raising a little person and experiencing life through a fresh pair of eyes.
So, yes.
Now, the next question is when. When should I (okay we) have kids? Well, that’s the part that always trips me up. There are sooooooooo many things I want to do, did I say sooooooooo many things … I want to travel – to New York, to Italy, to Paris… That’s about it – that’s not asking a lot is it?
But society is pressuring. No, not any one person in particular, just society as a whole — I mean, I am in my mid-30’s in a few weeks and there’s no turning back – YIKES! And, if I’m really honest, my biological clock is pretty much tick, tick, ticking away — not that I pay too much attention to it.
I think if I’m meant to get pregnant it will happen when it’s supposed to happen. If it’s not meant to be then it’s not meant to be… that’s pretty much the attitude I have about everything in life – I think it’s a good one to have… that everything happens for a reason.
Okay, if your a student of mine reading this, you probably know a little more about me than you wanted, so I promise not to burden my blog with baby babble.
I promise the next entry will be way more exciting!